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Main Location:
1505 Orchid
Av
Winter Park
FL 32789
Satellites:
St. Luke's
Lutheran, Oviedo
Spirit of
Joy, Orlando
Asbury
United Methodist, Maitland
Woodlands Lutheran, Montverde
Prince
of Peace
Orlando
Hope
Lutheran/
Trinity
Lutheran
The
Villages
Board of Directors
Jim DeMark
Judy Duda
Mark
Engwall
Suzanne
Graham
Martha Kessler
Dr. Marty
Lewis
Rev. Jeff Linman
Duane Massoll
Scott Morris
Ruth Rieder
Susan Roby
Corrine Roy
Robert Waggoner
Jon Yergler
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Partnership
YOUR PARTNERSHIP with LCS is
necessary for those who come. As
people are more affected by job
losses...we have been here for
them! In recent years LCS has
had a 22% increase in sessions
with a four-fold increase in fee
subsidy (funds we have to find)
in order to help them with their
limited health care resources.
We often hear: "You've been here
when others have not...!" A
random survey of 70 people who
came, indicated nearly 90%
stating 'improvement' for why
they came (10% said "too early
to tell"). YOU CAN BE A PART of
LCS' response for those who come
for help. We kindly ASK FOR YOUR
GENEROSITY in "helping LCS help
them." You may donate with an
on-line gift (through our
website LcsFL.com), or mail a
check to LCS, 1505 Orchid Ave.,
Winter Park, FL 32789. Thank you
for your help!
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"Thankful Moments"
By Rev. Mel Jacob
I was scheduled to lead our
staff devotion last week. I like
to give a theological reflection
not only on what is happening in
the LCS' world of "more are
coming with increased needs"
but, also, the larger world
around us and our personal
lives.
I borrowed a 'reflection' that
had been meaningful to me. It
was written by Fr. Thomas
Keatings a Trappist monk and
well-known for his writings on
Centering Prayer. I used his
thoughts from "Being Truly
Present" in
Reawakenings for my
devotion. These were based on
Jesus' words that came after his
resurrection where he told his
fear-filled disciples, hunkered
down behind locked doors, the
words, "Peace be with you."
All at LCS from the receptionist
to business manager and
counselors/therapists daily hear
a lot of fears from the people
who call and come for our
multiple services. The staff
devotion was filled with
conversation on the subject of
fear and peace and the idea of
being-truly-present. There was a
lot to lay in the context of
prayer as we concluded.
Afterwards, someone suggested I
should write about the subject
for this Thanksgiving/Advent
season newsletter. So, I hope
these words speak to you.
Keatings reflected: "Peace is
something greater than joy or any
emotion. It is beyond joy and beyond
suffering. ...Peace is defined as
the tranquility of order: everything
in its right place....We live
waiting for the right moment to be
converted and to start to practice
the virtues, to pray, or to enter
some ministry. All of us are waiting
for the perfect situation when at
last we have the time for prayer,
reflection, spiritual reading,
service to others, we can forgive
our enemies, our early education,
the church, our mothers and fathers,
and finally ourselves..."
These words surely speak to our
contemporary 'fears' and offer a
backdrop for this Thanksgiving/
Advent Season. There is a lot to
suck joy out and disrupt
tranquility. Meeting expenses
with less income,
uncertainties with later life
security, governmental leaders
stymied in working together,
continual rumblings of
terrorism, national and global
economic downturns, family
tensions and dysfunction,
personal doubts, etc. We, too,
ask what is the 'right
place' for everything?
Keatings' alternative was
creating the "habit" of
experiencing God, the divine
presence, in the 'present.' To
accentuate his point, he wrote
that "the right order for human
beings is to see, hear, touch,
feel, and taste God in
everything that happens..."
A frequent challenge is
listening without judgment to
individuals who do not desire,
refuse, or simply are not ready
to see God in the immediate
present, much less everything
that happens. So, we open our
ears and hearts to the
'un-peace' in their words,
then wait with Advent-expectancy
by being truly present.
Hope, healing, and well-being within
the midst of all that brings
un-peace are miracles of divine
proportions. Glimpses and
expressions of these miracles of
peace truly are celebration times.
To experience such 'miracles' with
those who come is a wonderful
re-awakening occasion. "Right
Moments" to give thanks....for
the peace seen and shared, for those
(individuals, congregations and
judicatories, foundations, etc.) who
partner with gifts to help LCS
serve, and for Him-the never
leaving, truly present Prince of
Peace. |
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"Gratefulness in the Present"
By Rev. Mary Jacob, ARNP,
PSYMHCNS-BC
As a Spiritual Director, I
have been privileged to
experience gratefulness in
the present over and over
again. The spiritual
direction relationship is
all about being in the
present - companioning
another person on his or her
faith journey. Having been
trained for three years in
the practice of spiritual
direction (I prefer the term
"spiritual companioning"),
and having experienced my
own spiritual direction
relationship over the past
eight years, I have
developed a deep respect for
what it means to give and
receive an invitation to be
"in the moment" and savor
the grace and love of God,
experienced in one's own
personal way. The only
possible response is
gratefulness!
People sometimes ask, "When
does one seek spiritual
direction, and when would
pastoral counseling be
chosen instead?" In October,
I explored this very
question with eighteen
pastoral counselors,
doctoral students, and
mental health therapists, of
various church
denominations, in a workshop
setting at a regional
meeting of American
Association of Pastoral
Counselors. The group agreed
that careful, other-focused
listening is an ingredient
in both spiritual direction
and pastoral counseling. In
both types of helping
relationship, a person may
bring any concern from their
life for consideration. The
difference between the two
approaches to personal
growth is the focus. In
counseling, the focus is
often on solving life
problems and navigating
difficult life passages from
a psychological perspective.
Pastoral counseling offers
an opportunity to fully
explore the spiritual
perspective as well. In
contrast, the focus of
spiritual direction is on a
person's relationship with
God - prayer life, ongoing
and unfolding spiritual
practices, and stages of
spiritual development in
someone sincerely seeking
closeness to God. Spiritual
Direction is not counseling
or therapy. While spiritual
concerns can be addressed in
therapy, and healing can
occur in spiritual
direction, each has its
primary focus. Tilden
Edwards
(Spiritual Director,
Spiritual Companion, 2001)
writes, "At their best,
spiritual direction and
various kinds of
psychological counseling
complement one another, and
both can be seen to
contribute to human
well-being."
In the words of Spiritual
Directors International
(www.sdiworld.org),
"like prayer, contemplation,
and meditation, spiritual
direction nourishes the
spiritual aspect of being
human, allowing us to serve
with authenticity and
grateful hearts."
If you would like to know
more about spiritual
direction/companioning,
email Mary Jacob at
maryjacob@lcsfl.com
or call 407-644-4692.
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Reflections From a Pastoral
Counselor
Rev. Dr. Rick Armstrong, LMFT
As a staff we identified our
theme for this quarter's
newsletter to be "Gratefulness
in the Present" which I think is
an important theme for life each
day. I began by thinking of my
own situation my wife and our
relationship, my faith and
relationship with a grace-filled
God, our children, their
families (as I write this 2 more
grandchildren on the way!), my
father (just celebrated his 86th
birthday) and his wife and my
sister and her family - all
important pieces of my present
and pieces of my reasons for
gratefulness. And then other
pieces include my work and
ministry at LCS as well as the
ministry and place of grace that
LCS is for many in our
community. Also our staff - my
colleagues - and our Board of
Directors and those who
financially support LCS - those
who make it possible for us to
serve and be present and offer
care for many in difficult
times. Gratefulness in the
Present for sure!
And then I reflected on the fact
that I have worked this year with
many whose present is vastly
different now than what their recent
past was and even more different
than what they imagined that their
present and future would be. I
worked this year in Alabama
following over 130 tornados in that
state in one day; in Haiti still
recovering from years of
unbelievable poverty and the
earthquake from which they are still
recovering and will be for a while;
I've worked this year (as well as
other years) with folks grieving
over the loss of loved ones, or a
job, or a marriage, or dreams, or
the ambiguity of pending loss in
disease,
congregational/organizational
instability, changing life
situations, and questions about
economic security. And the list
could go on and on. Gratefulness in
the present?...The present is not
yet comfortable for some, so maybe
for that reason gratefulness is hard
to feel because the reality of
instability is felt so strongly.
Feelings of instability and "not yet
comfortable" are pretty normal in
times of loss and grief! Recovery
from grief and loss is a process
which takes time. We often feel as
though we want things over and done
with quick. At times we even
convince ourselves that things are
over and done with. But for many
that may not be the case. In
disasters many are dealing with home
repairs, insurance claims and the
added expenses from all of the
storms. For others experiencing loss
or impeding loss they are dealing
with loneliness, mixed feelings
about memories, anger, economic
struggles, issues of personal value
and worth, questions around the
upcoming holidays and possibly the
"clouds" around the year(s)to come.
Many of these realities might
influence one's view of the present.
Recovery also has to do with a new
sense of vulnerability and/or a new
discovery of how we are protected
and empowered to survive. I think
that was what the prophet wrote
about in Isaiah 40 when he said
"Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall; but
those who hope in the LORD will
renew their strength. They will soar
on wings like eagles; they will run
and not grow weary, they will walk
and not be faint."
That verse seems to talk through
the present to a future which is
not easy to comprehend in the
times after a loss. In times
after loss we are often filled
with questions and fears about
life, ourselves, relationships,
including our relationship with
God. Even though we have
questions and fear, we can know
we have a future and God's
presence through these
uncomfortable times. As the days
go on into weeks and months we
often begin to see a "new
normal" replace the old normal.
In that we might discover the
meaning of the passage
"For I know the plans I have for
you," declares the Lord, "plans to
prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a
future." That's God speaking in
our present about our
future...that's knowing God in our
present as God was in our past and
will be in our future. And for that
we might be able to begin to be
grateful. I know I am and I pray
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Circle of Life
"The Circle of Life"
Wellness series will be
offered evenings in January
(8 sessions). Areas include:
spirituality, fitness,
nutrition, career, financial
health, nature, emotions and
life's purpose. "The Circle
of Life" is not a therapy
group. It is intended to
build upon the identified
strengths of participants to
enhance/strengthen health
and well-being. Call us for
more info: 407-644-4692.
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Thanks....
Thanks to all the individuals
who have made donations to LCS
so that we can help others. We
also want to express our
appreciation to the foundations
and congregations who have
kindly given us grants and
financial support the last year
or so.
Edyth Bush Charitable Foundation
Central Florida Community
Foundation
Darden Restaurants
Foundation
Dr. P. Phillips Foundation
The Ferdinand & Anna Duda
Foundation
John Duda Foundation
LCMS, Care/Recovery of
Church Workers
ELCA Foundation Lutheran
Services for the Elderly
Magruder Foundation
Thrivent Financial for Lutherans
Winter Park Health
Foundation
VNA Foundation
Asbury United Methodist Church,
Maitland
Ascension Lutheran Church,
Casselberry
Bethany Lutheran Church,
Leesburg
Hope Lutheran Church, The
Villages
Incarnation Lutheran Church,
Silver Springs
Prince of Peace Lutheran Church,
Orlando
Spirit of Joy Lutheran
Church, Orlando
St. John Lutheran Church, Winter
Park
St. John Youth Ministry,
Winter Park
St. Luke's Lutheran Church,
Oviedo
St. Philip Lutheran Church, Mt.
Dora
Trinity Lutheran Church,
Orlando
Woodlands Lutheran Church,
Montverde
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Thrivent Choice - Touch Lives,
Warm Hearts
Here's how it works.
Eligible Thrivent members
are designated Choice
Dollars that they can direct
to their preferred Lutheran
organization including
Lutheran Counseling
Services. Potential Choice
Dollars range from $25 to
$500 for benefit members. By
directing designated Choice
Dollars, you can request
funding for our
organization. The grant
funds will be used to
benefit those who can't
afford to come to Lutheran
Counseling during these
tough economic times.
Help make a difference!
For more information
about the Thrivent
Choice program:
- Visit Thrivent.com/ThriventChoice
- Call 1-800-847-4836
and say "Thrivent
Choice"
- Or call your Thrivent
Financial Representative
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